“So you see," said Hamza's father as he finished reading the storybook, "A Muslim never lies and alway tells the truth. That's what Islam teaches us."
Just then, the telephone bell rang sharply in the house. As little Hamza ran to answer it, his father called out, "If it is for me, tell them Daddy is not at home!!"
This is just one of the scenarios in our everyday lives. We claim to be Muslims and unhesitatingly say that we are proud to follow it, but when it comes to putting our words into actions, unfortunately, we are far from it. We teach our children one thing, but we do another. We preach piety, but we ourselves don't practice it.
We lie in our everyday lives and in our dealings with everyone, yet we are totally unaware of it. There are many of us who, pray and fast, and are the first to criticize others. But our practical lives are full of all forms of lying, fraud and dishonesty. And we see examples of such lying left and right, day in and day out.
And lying doesn't just mean out rightly telling untruths to someone on their face. Lying includes all kinds of 'little white lies', deceit, deceptions and forgery.
So, telling your kid to say "Daddy's not home' when, in fact, you are right there is absolutely a form of lying.
And not fulfilling your promises on purpose, when you had the power to do so, is a form of lying.
And cheating in the exams is a form of lying.
Your 'friend' marking you present, although you were absent, is another form of lying.
Faking a 'doctor's note' when in reality, you were not sick, you just overslept or were too lazy to go to work or school is also lying.
Telling the cop that your wife is having surgery or your kid is sick, (or whatever else excuses one can think of) when he pulls you over for speeding is also lying.
Dishonesty in your business dealings as well as in your interaction with others is lying.
Giving false witness is one of the gravest forms of lying.
Pretending to be of low income and applying for government aid, although you are not in need of it, is another form of lying and deception.
Forging or altering university certificates to get a job or visa, is just plain and simple, lying and fraud.
And the list goes on and on.......
We forget that Ibadat does not mean just praying and fasting. True Ibadat includes our 'Mu'amalaat' , how we deal with others, Muslims as well as non-Muslims, our manners and our behavior.
We forget that lying is one of the MAJOR SINS.
The Prophet (Pbuh) said: "Beware of telling lies, for lying leads to immorality and immorality leads to Hellfire. A man will keep telling lies and striving to tell lies until he is recorded with Allah as a liar." (Muslim)


