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Life & Relationship

Being True To Yourself

The 3-day Workshop “Discover Yourself” was held at Mefikeng, Getaway Guest Home on 13,14 & 15th July 2007. The participants share their experiences after the Workshop.


Responses of some of the participants


NAVEEDA: Before attending this workshop, I used to blame everyone, even my innocent four year old child for my unhappiness. I was bitter and angry. The workshop has taught me a lot and really it helped me ‘Discover Myself’ and made me realize that it really is all about yourself. You are the author of your own future. I am going to work to put into practice all what I learnt to make my life happy and peaceful. You are excellent, come back soon. Jazakallah.


MEHNAZ: The workshop was very inspiring and I really enjoyed it thoroughly. It has really opened up my thinking and has reminded me of being steadfast, conscious and being responsible. It has showed me inner peace, contentment, and the greatest gift of all is to be true to yourself. We have the ultimate power and control of all our actions and decisions.


AZIZA: Namaz has become so much more fulfilling and I am not just praying to avoid punishment, but praying to enjoy every moment of my life. I now understand more of Allah’s plan for us than I ever did. Before everything I did, I did it unconsciously, to avoid punishment, to achieve heaven and avoid hell that was the whole idea and nothing in between seemed to matter. I was before just existing and not living. Now I feel empowered. I cannot wait to try out these new possibilities I have learnt.


FARZANA: Before the workshop I thought I was the most learned, holy, perfect person. I was not the real person that I portrayed. There was a lot of anger, resentment, hate, blame etc. which was bottled up within me which was hindering my happiness, progress and just finding peace with every moment. Today my mind is here and I am present. I am now truly a khalifa and not a temple of shaitan. I am temple of God . I hereby beg of Allah to grant me the ability, strength and assistance.


SHARIFA: I feel I have accomplished a lot by this workshop. It has helped me to accept myself, my life and face the challenges placed in front of me. Before this workshop I was fearful of almost everything. Always worrying about what tomorrow will bring and if I can handle it or not. Now things are much clearer and I feel at peace. I have learnt to control certain things about myself and let go of my fears. Everybody should have the chance to experience this workshop. It is truly life changing on some level if not all.


RABIA: I have looked into myself deeper than I anticipated. I have read many books including the Quran and Hadith. The other books often tell you how you should live your life; as in theory you know….But this workshop gave me (for the first time in my life) the tools (designs) on how to consciously make the changes. The practical examples helped me to realize that it is only practice that will help us to change. I have become very aware of the language that I use and how crucial it is in relationships.


LUCIA: The workshop has helped me to forgive those who trespass me and not to live my life based on what happened in the past. I also learnt that for me to enjoy the bounties of Allah, I have to submit myself to Him and live according to His rules. Before the workshop I had differences with my mother. I judged her based on what happened more than 20 years ago. My life was stuck to such an extent that I was rotating around one angle. I did not have peace and happiness.


RAJESH: I have learnt, how important it is to forgive, to let go of the hurt and pain of the past. I learnt that if you want love, you have to give love and the first step you have to take is to love yourself. First step is to change myself.


FARHANA: I have learnt how to look at situation and not judge it. I saw how getting stuck in the past can stagnate your life. It is like standing outside your life and watching yourself- “Not a pretty picture”. I saw in my own life how everything that I ever resisted it persisted. I really understand the dynamics involved. You cease to exist in a life like that. I refuse to be an observer, I am determined now to be a player in the game of life. I realize that the peace and tranquility that I seek is within myself. I have now the tools to access my life, I will use them and achieve the life that I want to be living. I feel that I have grown immensely in my perspective in these three days and I will live a purposeful life.


FATIMA: My son and husband attended the Workshop and they were taken aback and at the age of only 9 years, my son said he found out the importance keeping his word. Very relaxing and total peace of mind. Lovely video clippings. You were brilliant, especially in dramatization. May Allah take you far in your work.


ISMAIL: My son, my wife and myself have indeed found the workshop very profound and educative. We are able to see differently what we used to see otherwise. Please do continue to conduct workshops like this to help mankind to unleash the potential of mind power they have but yet, they fail to discover.



National Workshop on 'Social Inclusion of Muslims'
Aligarh


The Centre for Promotion of Educational and Cultural Advancement of Muslim of India (CEPECAMI) at the Aligarh Muslim University will hold a national workshop on ‘Social inclusion and Access to Education of Indian Muslims: Evaluating Government Policies’ at the University on November 13-14.  Director Dr. Abdul Waheed has invited papers from scholars having expertise in the area. The workshop would discuss 1-strategies for the social inclusion of Indian Muslims, 2-social inclusion and affirmative action, 3-need for quality schools, 4-education of Muslim women, 5-Linguistic and educational rights of the Muslims, 6-Higher education of Muslims and affirmative action, 7-evaluating area intensive and Madrassa modernization programme. Those desirous of participating can contact:


Dr. Abdul Waheed, Director, CEPECAMI, B-2 Nazir Ahmad Road, Aligarh Muslim University, Aligarh-202002, cepecami_amu@rediffmail.com, Phone: 0571-2700920, Ext-1347,    0571-09897199572 (Mr. Amir), 09319915223 (Mr. Wasim)

3- DAY WORKSHOP
“Discover Yourself”

INTENTION OF THE WORKSHOP

“Verily never will Allah change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.” (13:11)

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In the first day of the workshop your anger disappears and you enter into a state of peace and tranquility. You feel free and light and your view of life, people around you and the world transforms.


The next day you get rid off the burden of the past and the constrains the past imposes on your view of life. You get access to live in the present and create a new future. You have the power, freedom and self-expression to take any challenge that life throws at you and life is no longer a burden. Your view of life alters. You create a new you, surrendering to the will of Allah and choosing to be His representative. You purify your heart and truly get connected with Almighty Allah.


Third day you witness a whole new world around you by demolitioning (fana) your ego. You see life as simple with Truth prevailing and Falsehood perishing. You experience, love, joy, peace, happiness, contentment and bliss, a gift Allah has given you to experience and share with others.

Unless there is individual transformation there will be no Universal Transformation.
Now we need a revolution, not for changing others,but to change ourselves


IN MYSORE - NOV- 2007
FOR COLLEGE GIRLS AND WOMEN

Dates: 16,17 & 18TH NOVEMBER 2007
Timings: 9.00 am to 5.30 pm
Venue: Sir Syed Hall
Farooqia Boys High School, Mysore
ORGANISED BY: RMET
(Farooqia dental college & Farooqia college of Pharmacy)

FOR REGISTRATION CONTACT:
Mr Taj Mohammad Khan: 9448049662 / A.R.S. : 9880072528



IN MUMBAI - NOV 2007
FOR GIRLS (STUDENTS) AND WOMEN

Dates: Nov 30, 1, & 2 December 2007
Timings: 9.00 am to 5.30 pm
Venue: Al-Mu’minah School,
47, Chakla Street, near Zakriya Masjid, MUMBAI
ORGANISED BY: Al-Mu’minah School

FOR REGISTRATION CONTACT:
Dr. Shenaz: 9322266035 / Rida: 9869696971



IN MYSORE - DEC- 2007
FOR SENIOR STUDENTS (BOYS) AND MEN

Dates: 7,8, & 9 DECEMBER 2007
Timings: 9.00 am to 5.30 pm
Venue: Sir Syed Hall
Farooqia Boys High School, Mysore
ORGANISED BY: RMET
(Farooqia dental college & Farooqia college of Pharmacy)

FOR REGISTRATION CONTACT:
Mr Taj Mohammad Khan: 9448049662 / A.R.S: 9880072528 / Yousuf: 9845222850


Workshop Designed and Conducted by:
A.W. Sadathullah Khan B.Sc, B.E (Mech), Editor, Islamic Voice,

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