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Growing Old Gracefully
By M.Hanif Lakdawala
Many Muslims have not let age dominate their psyche. Going 70, but they are leading active lives serving the community.
Aging is a simple fact of life. There are people who accept the fact and age gracefully. There are others who let old age dominate their psyche, physique, and health.
It is possible to remain active, healthy, and productive even post 75 years. Let us take example of those who are nearing 80s, but are as active as ever.
A. Gani Atlaswala is one of the most low profile Muslim philanthropists. At the age of 77, he is as active as ever. When it comes to community, social and educational welfare, Gani Atlaswala is always in the forefront. He starts his day immediately after Fajr prayers and completes his business assignments.
Relaxing for an hour in the afternoon prepares him for a long evening session, meeting many individuals and groups and helping them in every way he could. Gani Atlaswala is associated with a number of welfare Trusts in guiding them. What makes Gani Atlaswala unique is his low profile and straight forward approach to work. Zameerul Hassan, Managing Trustee of the Renaissance Welfare Trust has worked with him on many projects and says that Gani Atlaswala is the most approachable person.
Dr. Jhamkhanawala: At the age of 77, Dr. Jhamkhanawala as the president of Anjuman-i-Islam is not only managing more than 100 institutions but also planning their growth and expansion as never before. Anjuman has never expanded at the pace as it is growing under the leadership of Dr Jhamkhanawla. He is leading a team which has nearly got the UGC approval to recognise Anjuman as a deemed university. Under his leadership, Anjuman-i-Islam has taken shape as a professional educational institution backed by a sincere cause for the upliftment of the community. But Dr Jamkhanawala even at this age does not want to rest on his laurels; he is all set to introduce the latest courses at affordable fees for the Muslim students.
Adam Noor: Hon. Gen. Secretary, the Memon Educational & Welfare Society (MEWS) is in his mid 70s. Here is a person who never takes a break. Sitting in the office of News, he single handedly manages the welfare activities of the organization. From raising funds for the scholarship for poor students to editing the MEWS organ to managing the affairs of the various MEWS activities, Adam Noor is a one- man army never allowing age to come in the way of serving the community.
Dr Abdul Karim Naik: Founder of IRF and Rehmani Foundation. At 77, he is the ubiquitous face in most of the community forums and initiatives. His passion for serving the community has only increased with age. Simultaneously working on many projects and serving slew of organisations, Dr A K Naik never allows age to stress him down. Simple living and high thinking has made him the visionary personality of the community.
Haroon Mozawala: 64, is member and trustee of many Muslim organisations. He is devoting his full time for the social cause handing over his business empire to his son. The cause, which is very dear to his heart, is helping Muslim students financially for their day -to-day problems related to health, education, housing and even drinking water. Haroon bhai as he is popularly known is active in socio-political issues even writing speeches for the Muslim politicians. He is also popular amongst the Ulema, hosting the All India Muslim Personal Law Board meetings in Mumbai.
Psychologist Dr Mumtaz Jani, opines that aging is more related to the psyche. His advice is very simple:Accept aging as a fact of life and embrace it. Always think about those who will never have the opportunity to age.
Remember that your age is just a number, not who you are. Dr Jani said that aging lends an air of respect, dignity, and wisdom. “Feel good about it. Your aging will be seen as a good thing in the eyes of others. Make sure you view your aging in the same way” he said.
Never stop working! When you reach retirement age, do not retire unless you have to. If you are forced to retire, do it, and then promptly get another job that you will love doing. Many people retire and promptly go downhill emotionally and physically. Retirement is for old people. But you are aging, not getting old. However, aging is normal, progressive and irreversible. But old age is not synonymous with disease; one can maintain good health even at an advanced age.
Maulana Riaz Ahmed Khan: Chairman, Idara Dawatul Quran is in his early 70s. After the demise of Maulana Shams Peerzada, couple of years back, it is Maulana Riaz who is carrying forward the mission of Idara. In Mumbai, Maulana Riaz is one of the face which is acceptable to all the sections of community. Even at this age he is proactive, raising funds for a number of educational institutions and Trusts he is associated with.
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