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Discover Yourself

WORKSHOP SCHEDULE


In the name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful

DISCOVER YOURSELF
www.discoveryourself.info


3-DAY WORKSHOP SCHEDULE

WORKSHOP IN DELHI
DATES : 4, 5 & 6th April 2009
Venue: Indian Islamic Cultural Centre,
87-88, Lodhi Road, New Delhi - 11003
Rs. 1000/- per head
( incudes Refreshments and Light Lunch for all participants for all three days)
Organised by: Mr. Neeraj Raj, Cell : +91-9198029995
Email: neeraj.rajvilash@yahoo.com
Mr. Fahim Rahman, Cell: 9899046786. Email: fahim.remm@gmail.com

WORKSHOP IN QATAR
DATES : 9, 10 & 11 APRIL 2009
Organised by: First Global Knowledge Centre
Contact: Mr. Hazim Hamza
Cell: +974 5839051,
Email: hazim.hamza@gmail.com

WORKSHOP IN SOUTH AFRICA
1. Cape Town : 17, 18, 19 APRIL 2009
For Details & Reg Contact:
Mariam Parker : (021)-930 7495/ 084 5007786,
mariam@mweb.co.za
2. Durban : 24, 25, 26 APRIL 2009
3. Durban : 1, 2,3 MAY 2009
For Details & Reg Contact:
Dr. Abdul Rahim Gani: 084 886 2872,
Minds Alive, Dr Anwar Jewa: 031-2661112/1113
Head Office: Pretoria
Contact K.Kurtha: 0725881231/0825572153
Mohamed Ebrahim, Email: mohamed@frazem.com

PURIFICATION OF SELF

"He Indeed Shall Be Successful Who Purifies Himself" (87:14)

WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT FROM THE WORKSHOP

In the first day of the workshop your anger disappears and you enter into a state of peace and tranquility. You feel free and light and your view of life, people around you and the world transforms.

The next day you get rid off the burden of the past and the constrains the past imposes on your view of life. You get access to live in the present and create a new future. You have the power, freedom and self-expression to take any challenge that life throws at you and life is no longer a burden. Your view of life alters. You create a new you, surrendering to the will of Allah and choosing to be His representative. You purify your heart and truly get connected with Almighty Allah.

Third day you witness a whole new world around you by demolitioning (fana) your ego. You see life as simple with Truth prevailing and Falsehood perishing. You experience, love, joy, peace, happiness, contentment and bliss, a gift Allah has given you to experience and share with others.

Unless there is individual transformation
there will be no Universal Transformation.
Now we need a revolution, not for changing others, but to change ourselves

The spiritual weapon of self-purification, intangible as it seems, is the most potent means of revolutionizing one¡¦s environment and loosening external shackles. It works subtly and invisibly; it is an intense process though it might often seem a weary and long-drawn one. It is the straightest way to liberation. The surest and quickest and no effort can be too great for it. What it requires is faith.



BENEFITS:

* GAIN CONFIDENCE * GAIN COURAGE
* CONTORL ANGER * OVERCOME FEAR
* OVERCOME STRESS * OVERCOME INHIBITIONS
* LEAD A SUCCESSFUL LIFE * KNOW WHO YOU ARE?
* KNOW THE PURPOSE OF LIFE? * KNOW YOUR POSITION ON EARTH?
* CREATE A NEW FUTURE * DEVELOP GOOD INTER PERSONAL SKILLS
* CREATING STRONG RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF AND YOUR CREATOR.


There is difference between knowing intellectually and experiencing.
Experience is being present, without definition, expectations or judgment,
with one¡¦s perceptions.
Here is an opportunity of a lifetime 4 U !!!

please see the interview telecast by ITV, South Africa
on Sunday 16th November 2008
On Discover Yourself" workshop
Purification of Soul.
Here are the links for the youtube video
Part 1 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jLQptewnCIA
Part 2 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CtYv9ge9Jaw
Part 3 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2XgnJGMfKCo
Part 4 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HD2zGikg3l0



I have traveled to many countries, attending seminars by world renown scholars such as Earl Nightingale, Dennis Weatley, Wyne Dyer and Deepak Chopra, amongst others. All these great personalities passed on information and their personal experiences. I always felt that there was a need to write a course for Muslims, based on Qur¡¦aan and Sunnah. Sadathullah Khan has done it. We have discovered talent that has the ability and method to transform people. My advice to all my brothers and sisters is to take this opportunity to learn the concept of La illaha illallah, the meaning of abundance and the meaning of unlimited possibilities.
Ismail A Kalla
Islamic Council of South Africa.

I was deeply impressed by Mr Sadathullah¡¦s powerful presentation skills. His unwavering commitment to social revolution through transformation of individuals has touched the hearts of every participant in the workshop held in Dubai. It was a very edifying experience. As hours went by, he began to grow in me. Not only as a trainer, but also as an individual with a passion for making a positive difference to human lives. I have read somewhere that passion is love and anger combined. His moral indignation and anger at the near-total negation of positive re-enforcement in the lives of our Ummah and his profound love for them moved me deeply. Mr Sadath¡¦s grassroots level approach to training will do our Ummah a world of good in the long run and be instrumental in creating a massive tsunami effect in the Muslim society. Perhaps the lessons I took from the workshop are totally different from the lessons most others took. The three-day workshop has had a powerful chastening impact on me as a person and specifically as a Muslim trainer who deeply shares his vision of community transformation starting at the grassroots level.
Dr. KUNHAMMAD
Trainer, Dubai

I liked the workshop very much. It is unique and the best way of doing Islah and dawah. It is an easy solution to all the problems in the families. In life how oneself can do Islah? The remedy for this is in the workshop. Since the workshop has lot of merits, common man should attend it as well as learned persons, especially this will be very helpful for women. It has to be conducted in every city. I cannot express the merits of the workshop, only you will know when you attend it.
MO ULVI KALEEMUDDIN, Bangalore.

** Total transformation in my life! Past sixteen years I have been searching for what I have found today! Every word spoken was powerful; it opened my heart, mind and soul and affected me deeply forever. I will never be theame person again. Past 16 years, my life has been total disaster, divorce, and physically abused, violence. Single mother of two, every problem at work, home, health and finance etc... Realized today I was a "drama Queen" creating my own misery being depressed, sad, negative every day of my life But I was searching for answers, for help, to get out of this and today Allah (swt) has accepted that Dua. I am eternally grateful to Allah and shaikh for transforming my life. I have never felt lighter, happier or more hopeful than at this point! I have found the real, true me. A dynamic, motivating and inspiring workshop. Allah (swt) has truly blessed with a gift of inspiring others. Thank you very much! My duas are with you

** All praise be to Allah Tala for creating, guiding and assisting khan to do this lofty work. I am writing these few words to thank you for a life- altering experience, for the insight into understanding myself, for giving me the keys to unlock my own joy happiness and confidence. I was "STUCK" for 20 years of my life! I have enjoyed this workshop 1000%. I felt all the time that you were addressing me. I intended to continue to make all the inner changes Inshah Allah, Jazakallah-u-khairan. May Allah Tala bless you with good health, a long life and guidance to continue this lofty work. You are doing it excellently. Shukran.

** The workshop is mind blowing connection between psychology and Islam. It is really a wonderful, insight oriented different workshop. The style and coaching was impressive.

** Par-Excellence. The entire Ummah needs to participate in this workshop. You are at the right time in this chapter of Islam.

** I have done numerous workshops and I have attended numerous talks by motivational speakers, what I enjoyed about this workshop was bringing in the Islamic perspective into things. I also enjoyed the humour used and I felt the last day of the course was absolutely fantastic

A brief profile - A.W. Sadathullah Khan
Janab A W Sadathullah Khan hails from the leading I T hub of the world and culturally rich city of Bangalore, India. A mechanical engineer by profession and a gold medallist from Bangalore University. After having worked in HAL, I.T.I and in Saudi Arabia, he returned to India to set up an export oriented Industry. He gave up his business and at present he has dedicated his life to serving humanity. He is also a journalist, publisher and the editor of the renowned English monthly, Islamic Voice, since January 1987. He is the founding member of the PEACE FOR YOU International Foundation and He spent many years in designing a unique course, ¡§Discover Yourself¡¨, based on Qur¡¦an and Sunnah.
In the past six years he has conducted more than 145 three-day workshops in all major cities of India and abroad, which has transformed the lives of thousands of participants who have attended his workshop.


Workshop Designed and Conducted by:
A.W. Sadathullah Khan B.Sc, B.E (Mech), Editor, Islamic Voice,

PEACE FOR YOU
International Foundation
Committed to make a difference
# 3/1, Palmgrove Road, Victoria Layout, Bangalore-560047, India,
Tel: 0091 80-41126165 /+91 98451 58996
islamicvoice@airtelbroadband.in, awskhan@gmail.com
http:www.islamicvoice.com
http://www.youtube.com/user/UmmHProductions
Bridging the Gulf
The Discover Yourself Workshop was conducted by A.W. Sadathullah Khan in Qatar recently. Here, some of the Participants share their experiences.


RUBEENA: I was a lost person before. I was arrogant, stubborn. Jealousy, hatred was inbuilt in me and I didn’t like myself or the people around me. I was so blind that I didn’t want to accept any of my faults.Bbut today I discovered my real self and started my life journey with a new intention and title. For that, first I forgave myself for who I was, I learnt the secret of Joy. I learnt to love from my heart and not from my brain. I learnt to see the beauty of life without blindness.

RAHMAN: Before the workshop I was not so serious and familiar with some of the basic concepts of life. This Workshop provided me with the practical tools to live my life on the values and principles so as to attain success in this life and in the Hereafter. My family members are satisfied with the good changes they saw in me.

YASMIN: This workshop helped me realize the many mistakes I make every day and sometimes unconsciously. I am a person who always sees to the negative side of everything, fearing the worst circumstances in life. After the workshop I realized that life is all about choices. I realized that sharing, feelings and thoughts is the best way to a peaceful and happy life and that’s what we all really want. I found a way to connect with my real self. I found answers to so many questions that have been bothering me since the death of my father years ago.

NAZIA: Before the workshop I was a namesake Muslim, caring about the past, very stubborn, short tempered and always arguing, and not respecting the husband.

MANSUR: I am a different human being after the workshop. I started to see things from a new perspective. I learnt how to live in the present. I started forgiving people in my life. This gives me free time to focus my strength on present situations. It is a life-changing workshop. After attending the workshop I found peace, fell in love with Allah, my temper disappeared, and I decided not to argue and answer back to my husband. I forgave all the people in my life. Now I am proud of myself.

FATIMA: I was a lost person. I did not know how to differentiate right from wrong. I thought that there should not be any right and wrong, so that I do not have to worry about it all. Before attending the workshop, I had many enemies in my heart, every time I remember them, I would get angry and frustrated and I would take it on my children. I was a big time drama queen. I would do anything and everything to get attention. I enjoyed being sympathized…. I get satisfaction when I achieve my goal of making people feel bad and sorry about themselves.

Today, Alhamdulillah…. after attending the workshop, I learnt to forgive myself for who I was and to accept the new “Me’ with a pure heart of love for others. I see everything clear. I accept my faults, I acknowledge and surrender myself to Allah, and I felt my body was light as a feather. All the negative thoughts I had over my husband, my mom, sister, father and everyone around have vanished. Please make a separate program separately for couples only.

MUMTAZ: Before the workshop my life was tense, stressed and living in the past, carrying all the people over me. After the workshop I have realized my mistakes and what I have been doing was wrong. I have learnt a lot and I shall put it into practice. Thank you for helping me to come out of my barriers.

SURAYYA: Before the workshop my feelings were that I was a caring person and others did not understand my feelings. I was leading a normal balanced life. By participating in the workshop I learnt that the feelings and concerns I had were created by me. I also got closer to my near and dear ones and understood what they feel and now I can see them from their point of view. Now I can see my actions and what consequences those actions can create. I have now committed myself to make a difference and enhance my life and prepare for the life here and Hereafter.

AZIZ: What I learnt during 30 years of life is same as I learnt in these 3 days, but I learnt more and corrected where I was wrong. I lost my stage fear. Jazakallah Khair .




AND FINALLY I MET 'ME'…
By Souzeina Mushtaq
“Life is an enchanting blaze,
Got me circling around the pomegranate,
The backloads of rushes I touched; with the torch internal
And thus I lost my way to the ferry…”

Life is a mystery within itself. These verses of Sheikh-ul-Alam (RA) unfold the mystery of life and make us re-think what actually we are. The idea that ‘I am something’ has made us so blind that we are unable to see our own faults. We do offer prayers, we do keep fasts, we do perform hajj, but at the same time we deceive, we disobey, we cheat, we lie. Still we are right. After all, we are MUSLIMS… we belong to the great religion ISLAM. We all live in this illusion of being greatest of all the creations… Ashraf-ul-Makhlooqat!

So what? I am not like that! I am a ‘true’ Muslim, I believe in one God. I am a good daughter, a caring friend, a darling sister and dedicated to my work. I cover my head always, wear proper dress. I help the meek and love orphans. But then, why there is still a void in me? Why am I still incomplete? Why am I still not happy? And why am I still a sinner? Yes, something is lacking. At times, I don’t offer prayers; at times, I disobey my parents; at times, I say small lies. And at times, I do something wrong.

This ‘at times’ doing what is not allowed in Islam had made me fall into a deep slumber from where it was out of question to wake up and differentiate between good and evil. It had made me to plunge into an abyss where from it was impossible to rise. I was caught up in chaos and confusion… Then suddenly, life took a beautiful turn and I experienced a new world before me.

It was on June 7, last year, when my friends and I went to B. Ed College, M. A. Road Srinagar to attend a 3-day workshop and I also participated in the workshop this year which was held on February 13, 2009. Actually, the name ‘DISCOVER YOURSELF’ had mesmerized us so much that we had made our mind to be a part of the workshop organized by some Islamic organization. This is what we knew about the programme. Therefore, without giving a second thought to it, we got our names registered and finally the day came.

It was a pleasant Saturday morning. Leaving my cozy bed after a tussle with my sleep, I got ready for the workshop. While on my way to my destiny, I was baffled by a mountain of questions in my mind. What is the purpose of attending the workshop? Why am I here leaving all my engagements? And most important of all, what is this ‘Discovering’ yourself? I just wanted to control my anger that was taking tolls always. Will this workshop help me in that? Rest I was ‘perfect’. I did not need any thing pertaining to change myself… Amidst the perplexing state, I reached the venue and entered the auditorium, which was full of mystified people like me. I managed a seat beside my pals and suddenly, my eyes caught the sight of a girl I did not like. She was sitting two seats after me with her gang of most ‘unwanted girls’ of our college. At first sight, I was unable to bear the ‘shock’ of having them in the workshop and that too in an Islamic one, but I consoled myself, hoping they will get some benefit out of it.

The editor of the monthly Islamic magazine “Islamic Voice”, A. W. Sadathullah Khan, introduced the whole concept of being present there. From then, the “discovering of one’s own self” started. The concept was a bit different from other workshops. I found it pretty interesting from the first moment. There was no preaching, just sharing; sharing of ideas, sharing of problems and sharing of one’s experiences.

“Self Deception is a disease that you cannot see”, said the coach (now we were players and playing to win the game of life). According to him, all problems arise because we are caught in the dilemma of living in the past and future, and as such ignoring the present. And most important, there exists no word called PROBLEM; it all depends on how we perceive things. In addition, having grudge for people and chip on the shoulder makes life a burden for us. The theme for the Day 1 was ‘To think from Nothingness’. What so ever the situation or who so ever the person is, we have to have no background and be present to what is happening around; to be an observer and listen to everything all around. A very interesting thing that he mentioned was that of ‘Yellow Glasses’. It means to see people from our own perspective, not considering their positive points.

Elaborating on the topic, the session ended. It was a warm-up day to prepare ourselves for the “game of life,” which was planned to be played the other day. At the end, we were given some homework wherein we were asked to share the experiences with other people.

The next morning was a bit different from usual. There was an extraordinary serenity in the air; something that I was longing for all these years. I was practicing ‘nothingness’ and the tranquility, my soul was feeling, is hard to describe in words. It was the second day of the workshop and another exciting day for all of us. After sharing the insights of the Day 1, game for Day 2 started. Our coach, Mr. Khan did something unique. He asked us to count from 99-0 with our eyes closed and in the meanwhile, he played Azaan, asking us to carefully listen to each word. An electric current ran through my whole body. It was like I had heard Azaan for the first time… I was lost in the melody; it was more exhilarating and electrifying than a violin. I felt as if I was in prostration before my lord and that too in Mecca… It was so soothing… Tears tickled down my face and I wept and wept.

The second thing was to ask forgiveness for Allah’s sake, of every one who has wronged us and to whom we have wronged. We were asked to remind the ‘Yellow Glasses’ we have for others and forgive each one of their mistakes or wrongdoings just for Allah’s sake and have the courage to give up the ego to win their hearts. I forgave each and every person who had done wrong to me or to my family and believe me, I got back the treasure that I had lost- my PEACE OF MIND… I was feeling light, free from all the tensions and anxiety.

The third thing was making ‘Hijra’. The term ‘Hijra’ means giving up for Allah’s sake. Our coach asked us to list the things that we were willing to give up, like, anger, lies, blaming, etc. and set ourselves free from the clutches of unwanted tribulations. The last but not the least thing was to share the possibilities that we had invented for ourselves to as many people as we could. The last day of the workshop was the crux of what we learned in these two days.

After the workshop was over, I recognized a new world within me. The heart, which was tainted with evils, became pure as that of an innocent child. To apply what I learned from my experience, I went to that ‘unwanted’ girl of my college, wished her and her friends, and the satisfaction I got back was worth diamonds.

What is the actual meaning of discovering one’s self?

Discovering self means knowing the depth of one’s own being. It is all about getting closer to YOU actually and in turn getting closer to the Almighty. The literal meaning of ‘Discover’ is to ascertain or find out something and this verily applies to all humans. When a person tries to know the reality of life, enlightenment surrounds him and he gets to know the secret of life or the TRUTH!

But if we ask ourselves what is life or I should put it like this, what is worldly life all about? A journey, a celebration, or is it everything? All of us will have different opinions. But I think for 99% of the world’s population, it is everything. A common man thinks that when I am born, my parents will take care of me until I grow up. I will have the usual schooling, then college to university, etc. Then I will get engaged in some sort of vocation and after that it will be my marriage time. As such, for the rest of my life, I will have to think about my family and eventually, I will die.

But is there any time left for introspecting and knowing the actual purpose of being on Earth as the greatest of all creations? Perhaps no. And the reason is quite obvious. We don’t know who we are and what we are meant to be! In the Holy Quran, Almighty Allah says, “O people, you are running after nothing. All these worldly pleasures are fake and they are mere illusions.” The saying can be proved scientifically. According to Einstein, E= MC2, where E stands for Energy, M stands for Mass and C for Velocity of light, which is approximately 300,000 m/s. This means, if a body of a certain mass is supplied with velocity twice that of light, then the body will convert from matter into energy. For example, if my velocity will be twice that of light, I’ll definitely move at an astonishing speed. You won’t be able to see me and this means, I won’t remain matter anymore. But there will be energy in me and this interprets that matter has got changed into energy. From this, we conclude that we people are actually fools, because we are running after energy and we won’t be able to capture it ever!

So the need of the hour is to know the reality of life and its actual purpose. But there are some other factors which prevent one from discovering one’s own self. They can be put forth as-

· Self deception: It is the greatest of all factors that prohibit one from attaining salvation. When we do something wrong, it is not that we deceive others, but in turn deceive ourselves. It is like a disease that we are unable to see.

· Intention: When we intend to do something, whether good or bad, it affects our doing. If the intention is right, it reflects in our work and if it is wrong, it proves harmful to us in the end.

· Anger: This factor is common among all of us. In fact, I am myself a victim of this ‘fatal disease’. It all starts when something goes wrong somewhere and we are unable to cope up with it.

· Breaking promises: As the adage goes, ‘Promise breakers are shoe-makers’. Still how many of us honor our word? Petty few. Today, a new theory is being followed, ‘Promises are made to be broken’.

· Ego: This factor is taking tolls in today’s world. If we do a wrong doing, we are unable to accept our fault and thrust the blame on other. The thought that I AM SOMETHING makes us blind to see the reality.

To overcome these factors, one must go for self introspection and meditation. Be reasonable and listen to one’s consciousness. This is what discovering self is all about.
Tail piece:

What I learned after discovering myself changed my perspective of seeing things in a positive way. I have regained peace in my life. I have gained control over my anger. I do not play the blame game now. I care for people around me. I honor my word and most important of all I think from nothingness… Those three days changed my life completely. Whenever I recite Allah hu Akbar, I feel His presence. For me, the word A-L-L-A-H, is not mere a word; it constitutes the whole world. Now I thank Him in whatever situation I am and surrender to His will. I have left oscillating in the past and future. I live for present. I am a completely changed person, with nothing wrong for anyone. I love and trust Allah. I feel Him within me, within my conscience, much closer than my heartbeat and my breath.

I have lost my superfluous desires, my ‘at times’ wrong doings and the sense of being ‘something’, but what I have gained is far better than anything else in this whole wide world. I never listen to the ‘Chatter box’ in my mind and do what my heart says. As Allah ordains,

“You have your desire and
I have my desire.
My desire shall reign.
But if you surrender yourself into my desire,
I shall bestow upon you your desire.
But if you oppose my desire,
Then I shall tire you,
In fulfilling your desire.
And ultimately,
My desire shall reign…”

Today I feel as if I have entered into a spiritual world and yes, I have discovered myself…

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