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LIFE & RELATIONSHIPS

Life is Calm as the Hoogly River

The Three-day Discover Yourself Workshop was held in Kolkata by A.W. Sadathullah Khan at Baitul Hujaj Auditorium on May 1 ,2 and 3rd 2008. In the city of arts, crafts and creative people, the Workshop brought path-breaking positive changes in the lives of the participants. Here, some of them share their experiences about the Workshop in their own words.

Akhter Hossain:I am 32 years old and by profession a teacher. I had attended the 3 days workshop, which was held on 1,2 and 3rd of May 2008 for the first time, and I found this workshop really interesting. First, I want to thank Almighty Allah, Islamic Voice and the organiser Falah-e-Aam Society. Before attending this workshop I was hoping to gather new things in this workshop, but I achieved more than that and got beyond my expectations from these 3 days workshop. Previously, I had attended so many Ijtemas, Seminars, Conferences, Conventions, Training camps, Dawah camps in Mumbai, etc. and many more in all over India, but this was truly new in all respects and I found Mr. Sadathullah Khan Saheb very energetic, intelligent, cool minded, and full of life (zajakallah-khair). I found it was like a modern Sufism.The training, which you gave us, used to be given by a person in Khan-Kha. But your teaching styleis really amazing. After attending this workshop, my life hastotally changed. And I commit that I will definitely walk in the path of Allah and will achieve my goal in my life.

Razia: Truly this workshop has completely transformed my personality. I was not a cheerful person, always brooding for hours, confined myself to my own world of illusion and blaming others for my condition. Earlier I thought that nothing could be done of my miserable condition, but to my wonder, I changed in three days, thanks to Allah. Never ever I thought that a 3-day workshop could change my life to such an extent. Now I have learnt to live in the world of reality. I am now determined to live a meaningful and successful life. I thank Khan sahib for holding the workshop for our betterment. God bless him.

Amjad: My life was like a wild cattle which did not have any aim,. but during the workshop, I got a new aim of living for the benefit of others and in the path of Allah which will lead us to success. Earlier I used to cheat others and wanted to become like them and I forgot who I am. But now I discovered myself and want to be an example for others.

Nusrat: Before the workshop, I was in the past, not loving myself, I was rude to my elders. I was not listening to my mother. I did not value time and used to waste it. But now after attending the workshop, I found many changes within myself. I realised the value of time. I will be true to myself. After the workshop, all the members of my family have changed and I found my father to be calm, earlier he was a very angry person. All my family members were very happy after attending the workshop.

Sarah: Before the workshop, I knew I had negative points and I did not really know what they were. In the workshop I came to know what I lack, what qualities I have to let go and the most important thing is that I realised who I am. From the workshop, I learnt how Satan makes us believe we are perfect, when we are in a hopeless condition. So many qualities of mine, I thought were my strong points were actually the ones keeping me away from living Islam. I thank Khan Saheb for opening our eyes, showing us the pit of fire we were blindly going to jump into. The workshop is very appropriate and an eye opener for all ages.

Jabeen: Before the workshop, my life was very boring and sad. I used to curse myself and say I am not fit for anything, I am not beautiful, why did my parents bring me into this world and I did not care for anyone. I used to say no one loves me, understands me and always used to blame myself as well as others. But after attending this workshop, my life has changed completely. I am able to see life through a new perspective, full of joy, happiness, calmness and peace. Now I have realised and I commit to love myself as well as my family, friends, relatives and others. I will stop blaming others and myself for any conditions or circumstance. I will devote myself for the sake of Almighty and live a peaceful life. The workshop moulded our minds in a very righteous manner. I think if other people are given the opportunity to attend the workshop, they will really benefit through this.

Sagir: This workshop proved to be highly beneficial for me as it helped me to discover myself through Islam. Earlier, I had a different view of what I am, but after attending the workshop, I actually came to know who I am and where am I standing in my life. I cannot actually express what this workshop has given me in three days. It has given me immense peace.
Mushtaque: I read the comments in Islamic Voice, and I thought how could some ones life change just by attending the workshop. But when I attended this workshop, I realised the power of speech. I was not just observing the change in me, but I was living the change inside me. I had stopped arguing, making others wrong, judging them. I gave up my ego, pride, arrogance and selfishness. I stopped lying, and irritating others. I discovered myself; I came to know who am I, who I am not and how to attain purity of soul. By attending this three-day workshop I got all the answers to my questions.

Shagufta: After attending the workshop, I realised that I used to blame others, was short tempered, lazy, rude and did not care for other peoples feelings. Now I realised that the problem lies within me and not in others. Now the dust is removed and I am clean. Now I have got the power to create my future. I had the most exhilarating experience. Till now I did not have such a beautiful view of life. I laughed, I cried, and I enjoyed and had fun. Nobody taught me this. I thank you. Allah bless you with long life, so that you can change billions of peoples life. We all love you sir.

Haider: My life was meaningless. I did not know why God had given me this life. Why I came to this world? What is the purpose for being over here? My life was boring; I did not want to live this life. Everyday I used to go to school, come back home, eat, and sleep. After attending the workshop I came to know so many things about Islam and the purpose of life. The workshop was very useful and my family saw changes in me and they said that I had changed my living style. I commit myself to keep my word and work for my community.

Bilal: Before the workshop, I was living a life of expectations, anger, revenge and jealousy and I felt that they are natural feelings and no one can escape from them. I have understood the truth and I commit myself to be peaceful and love others. After the workshop, for the first time, I listened to my faults from my family members with out giving any explanations and justifying or arguing on their opinion, it was really very satisfying. All I want to say is thank you.

Naila Ahmed: Before the workshop, I was very confused about my religion and had many questions about my family. But by Allahs grace, I have got all the answers to my questions. You have really helped me out. I thank you for all that you have done. I was sometimes very bitter and also asked God why my brothers were always fighting. But I realised that everything is happening by the will of God and we should surrender to Him and act.
3-DAY WORKSHOP
3-DAY WORKSHOP ON
Personality Development through Self-intorspection
(Based on Islamic Principles)
The workshop aims to achieve self empowerment
through the transformation of one-self.
http://www.nanima.co.za/discoveryourself.html


In the first day of the workshop your anger disappears and you enter into a state of peace and tranquility. You feel free and light and your view of life, people around you and the world transforms.

The next day you get rid off the burden of the past and the constrains the past imposes on your view of life. You get access to live in the present and create a new future. You have the power, freedom and self-expression to take any challenge that life throws at you and life is no longer a burden. Your view of life alters. You create a new you, surrendering to the will of Allah and choosing to be His representative. You purify your heart and truly get connected with Almighty Allah.

Third day you witness a whole new world around you by demolitioning (fana) your ego. You see life as simple with Truth prevailing and Falsehood perishing. You experience, love, joy, peace, happiness, contentment and bliss, a gift Allah has given you to experience and share with others.
Unless there is individual transformation there will be no Universal Transformation. Now we need a revolution, not for changing others,
but to change ourselves.

WORKSHOPS IN SOUTH AFRICA

IN DURBAN
DATES: 4th, 5th & 6th of July 2008
Timings: 9.00am to 5.30pm
Hartley Road Primary School, Overport, DURBAN
Contact: Saeed - 076 965 6512

IN JOHANESBURG
DATES: 11th, 12th & 13th of July 2008
Suliman Nana Memorial Hall Mayfair
Contact: Ayesha - 082 630 5880

IN PRETORIA
DATES: 18th, 19th & 20th July 2008
Al Ghazali college, Erasmia
Contact: Ruweida - 079 267 6174
Shezad Sulaiman Cell: 0827246091
Email: Shezi_stine@yahoo.com
From Mumbai to Muscat… Soul Searching Experiences!
The Three Day ‘Discover Yourself Workshop” conceived, devised, designed and conducted by A.W. Sadathullah Khan, Editor Islamic Voice, has brought about path-breaking positive changes in  the lives of all who attended the Workshop  across India and the world. From the North of India to South, East to West or even crossing the seas in the Sultanate of Oman, the Workshop has helped thousands to look at their lives through their souls. Here we bring the first hand responses of participants of the Workshop from Srinagar, Mumbai, Lucknow, Kolkata, Bangalore and Muscat.


Kolkata-May 2, 3 and 4, 2008

Aziza: Truly, this workshop has completely transformed my personality. Earlier, I was  not a cheerful person because  I always used to see other people through yellow glasses. I used to brood  a lot and  I confined myself to my  own world of illusion, hatred etc.   I always blamed others for  my  condition especially my husband who was very  busy, sparing no time for me. But  to my wonder, I  changed within three days, thanks to Allah, I am a responsible affectionate person and  I stopped giving reasons for my shortcomings and  I developed  the  forget and forgive attitude.  I  have learnt  to live in the world of reality.  I changed myself, and the whole world around me seems to change. I thank Mr Sadathullah Khan for holding this Workshop.

Mohammad Arafat: Prior to attending  the  Workshop, I used to be engrossed in the past, but after the Workshop, I am  more in the present. Though the Workshop was held under tight schedule, it was a  unique experience. From the Workshop, I understood the feeling of being ‘one Ummah.” The Workshop was like one big family being together. I realised that the practice of ethical  values are as important as Salat, Hajj and Zakat. My family members tell me that  I am more calm  and   peaceful now.

Amjad: My  life was like wild cattle with no  aims.  I was just eating, enjoying and sleeping,  but  after attending the Workshop, I got the  new aim of living for the benefit of  others in the  path of Allah which will lead us to success.  But now,  I discovered myself and want to be an example for others through my behaviour.

Nusrat:  Before the Workshop, I was in the past and not loving myself. I was very  rude to my elders and was not paying attention to what my mother  was saying.  I used to waste my time.  But now after attending   the three- day Workshop,  I  realised the value of time.  I realised that we should forgive our past and then our future will come into our life. We should control our anger too, and my whole family was happy after attending the Workshop.

Sarah:   I used to think that I had many qualities  which were my strong points. But that was what Satan made me believe.  Through the Workshop, I was able to analyze, that things like anger, worry etc are from Satan and this prevents us from living Islam through the soul. The  Workshop opened my eyes truly to the realities of life. Thanks to Mr. Sadathullah Khan.

Jabeen: Before this  Workshop, my life was very boring and sad.  I used to curse myself always that I am fit for nothing. I don’t  do anything properly, I use to cry  and say to myself that I am not beautiful why did  I come into this world. I used to say that no one loves me, no one cares for me, I want to die and not live for anyone. I used to say that no one understands me and always blamed myself as well as others. But after attending this Workshop, my life has changed completely  I am able to see life through a different and new perspe-ctive, full of joy and  hap-piness.

Sagir: This Wor-kshop proved to be highly beneficial for me as it helped me to discover myself through Islam. Earlier, I had a diff-erent  view of what I am, but after atten-ding  the Wor-kshop, I actually came to know  who I am and where am  I standing in my life. The Workshop has given me immense peace. There was one person I could  not forgive in my life, but after the Workshop and with the help of what I learnt here, I was able to forgive that person.

Mumbai -16, 17 and 18 May 2008

Shermeen: I have always been a very aggressive person when it comes to  any injustice done to me. But after attending this Workshop, I have become very composed. I have learnt to listen to my inner self. I have reached  a level of self- actualization and I have pardoned all those who have done injustice to me. I intend working hard and serving mankind to the fullest, Inshallah.

Saba: My temper is under control now  and  my home-help was really at peace when I did not scold  her for brea-king my  new honey bottle. It  feels good to control for Allah sake and to forgive.

 Roshan: Alhamdulillah, through this workshop, I have learnt many positive  things. I have learnt to accept the reality, surrender myself to the will of  Allah  realise the situation and reality.  I must never give up the values, principles and teachings of Islam. I must practice and  live Islam and  I must change myself to bring changes in others.

Noor Sabah: I am involved in imparting Quranic education to women and  aware of the importance of values. This workshop has shown me how to put these values into practice, and  that sharing is better than preaching. Thanks to Allah. I also thank Mr Sadathullah Khan.

Banu: Before  attending  the Workshop, my life was a full of confusion. I was not able to take any  decision on my own. I used to judge.  I was  in the world of story which was produced by me, but now after the Workshop, I am a new person. I will call myself a new born baby with pure heart. I now know what is the reality and what are the different  choices I have in my life to accomplish my dreams. After attending the  Workshop, the love for my parents has increased .
 
Lucknow- 12, 13 and 14 June 2008

Suma: I have done deep study of Islam as an aalima. I thought all that is discussed in the Workshop is known to me and I thought my husband will find it useful.  So I was happy. But on the second day, I felt it useful.  But now, on the last day, I felt enlightened.

Ahmad: Mr Sadat-hullah Khan  has put extremely difficult perspectives very well in the Workshop. It  is fantastic how he has made the basic Islamic teachings so simple.  I sincerely think that  Mr Sadathullah Khan is doing more for Muslims and Islam, than a whole lot of people I have met. I  declare that henceforth , I will take him as my coach and mentor.

Shabana: After attending the Workshop,  I felt very light, I slept very peacefully , I had no grudges, no regrets, I had forgotten and forgiven everybody. The last day of the Workshop was very nice. I was fully cleaned and purified.

Shere: Before attending this Workshop, I was quite suspicious and unforgiving. I  have forgiven almost all the people in my life through this Workshop.  I cleared my heart. I learnt nothingness and learnt to say  “shut up” control my “shaitan.” The Workshop is really very effective, very good and marvelous.

Armaan: I  used to be very short tempered before attending this Workshop, but after having been  part of this three day venture, mashallah I have learnt that anger brings  distress and  nothing else. So I now control my anger.

Zubair: Before  the Workshop, I was a very confused person and always lived in the past.  I always tried to say that other people are  guilty of something and I could get angry very soon. But now I have decided that I will live in the present.

Syed:  I  learnt to  do lot of things in this Workshop, the topic which touched my heart is anger and forgiveness. I feel free now and will change myself and discover myself.

Saad:  Before this Workshop, I was obeying 80%  of the basics. But after this Workshop, I got another 80%  and I am happy. But now after attending this Workshop, I got my answers to many questions.

Mohd Shariq:  Before the  Workshop, I  was living in the past and future and after the Workshop, I live in the present  I give up irres-ponsibility,  disobedience and ego.

Rashida:  This Workshop changed my thoughts and life also. The benefit of this Workshop in these three days was  that I  forgot my past problems and this was more useful than reading a book.

Bangalore 23, 24 and  25 May  2008

Sarifuddin: Before atten-ding the Workshop, I was in dark phobia, tensed and  treated all members in my house rather roughly. But now I am sharing many things  with my family members in a cheerful manner. My wife,  son and daughter-in-law are very eager to attend the next Workshop. God bless Mr Sadathullah Khan and his family.

Basharat:  The workshop was informative both  for the sake of  this world and the next world.  We do hear a lot of religious sermons, these do have an impact on our spiritual well-being, however this Wo-rkshop opened our eyes about reality and the method to apply our religious values for handling the reality. I request all Muslims to attend this Workshop.

Saqib: After attending the first day  of  the Workshop and doing  the homework, I realised my stre-ngths and weak-nesses. I fou-nd that most of my probl-ems arise from not keeping my word and also  lying.  I have decided that I will not lie and will keep my word. Thank you Sadath sir.

Arshad:  This Workshop has given insight about my life and helped me to   accept reality. This Workshop will definitely help me to face the hurdles in life and take co-ntrol over it.  I str-ongly recom-mend all Muslim brothers and sis-ters to attend this Work-shop. I  wish the  Islamic Voice team all the best.

Tauseef:  I was  a very  angry person, but after the Workshop, I have changed  myself completely. This completely changed my mind and heart. I am pure now.

Sadi-ya:  Life before  the Workshop was chaotic. Now, after the Workshop, I feel at peace with certain concepts and  questions that were bothering me. It has benefited me in the sense that I know  now how much  of  crust  had settled on me, how much it has corroded me and now that I am face to face with this reality, I have rea-lised the  tools that will help me to better myself and prevent further crusting. The exp-erience that I have shared with my family has definitely made them put their thinking caps on.

Srinagar-6, 7 and 8 June 2008

Fouzia: My life before the Workshop was purposeless.  I was  under the impression that I was living life. But now I know the difference. I am living every moment. There are no regrets, there are no worries. I see my future as bright and beautiful.

Zaliya: This  Workshop has changed my life totally. Before attending the Workshop, my life was full of tension. I was moody and short-tempered and through the Workshop, I developed  a sense of patience in myself. My mind is set free and  I forgive all who I felt had hurt me.

Fatima:  Before, I was in a  box, presuming I know everything, I am the best.  I can’t be wrong. But actually in practice, I committed mistakes,  I did not care for others .I always lost my temper very soon.   But now I see things clearly and in the proper perspective.

Jameel:  Before  attending  this Workshop, I was under great  stress, I  was  making myself  right   and others wrong.  I never  realised my inner voice in such a unique  way.  I was  prey of my nafs. Now I actually got to know how to conquer my nafs. I  surrender myself to Allah.

Niloofar:  First of all, I am thankful to Mr.Sadathullah Khan  who conducted this brilliant workshop. May Allah reward him. I now consider that I know the practical aspects of living Islam.

Muscat: May 28, 29 and 30 2008

Hunaynah: My life before the workshop was not what I expected it to  be, but  after the workshop I felt that I have changed my inner of myself. I benefited a lot. I found that the life we used to live is wrong and we should live in the present by forgiving etc.

Hasina: I learnt many new things. I have to change my life from bad to good and  my family are astoni-shed  looki-ng at the changes in me within three days.

Daron-shi: The Workshop has  taught me how to  respond when other people cri-ticise  me or say anything negative about me.  It helped me to realise some important issues in  life. The most important  lesson  I learnt from this Workshop  was that I am responsible for my own life and I have to make a choice about how I want to live my life.

Shaikh Arshad: I have discovered who I am after attending the Workshop. I was  short tempered, very selfish, used to keep my  past in my mind all the times. I am not very social.   After this Workshop, I have learnt to live life and the purpose Allah  has created me for. I decided not be angry anymore.

Amra: I was not  self confident.  I always reme-mbered my mistakes even after 10 years and it used to keep haunting me. When I speak to people, I always could not sleep and  I  try to recall if I  told them something that must have hurt them. But  I know, I am going to change myself  and I will not surrender to satanic  thoughts.

Nasser: I discovered myself and know who I am, after the Workshop. I realised my negative issues and corrected my mistakes, and I am friends with my children. They are free to advise me  The Workshop made me care for others and  to forgive people. I learnt to keep my “word”.

Ameena: After the workshop, I feel I am free from  the burdens that I was carrying. I used to do a meditation course,  But I could not continue my practice and so I stopped it.  I used to lose my temper often. Even while praying, negative thoughts would haunt me. But now,  I am really happy.

Maryam:  The Workshop helped me to change myself and I will now coach my family on the same topic. So, together we can make a  difference.

Abdullah Riyami: This amazing Workshop has helped me improve myself in ways I would  have never imagined. I found that everything the coach mentioned applied exactly to my character and personality. Through the teachings of the Workshop, I became more understanding , happy and relaxed
I also noticed that my relationship with my family has improved greatly, as I no longer judge what they tell me. I hope I keep practising  all that I have learnt.

Tasneem: Before the Workshop,  I was  frustrated  and like  a human bomb sticking to my past and carrying  all the past in my mind. I have learnt  how to avoid these frustrations and problems.  May Allah reward Mr Sadathullah Khan for his noble efforts.
          
Hajar: Before the Workshop, I was very afraid of the future and how it will be. I was afraid  that I could not  be the one who my parents want me to be. But after this Workshop,  I felt that the future is in my hands and the issue was that I must be in the present.
        
Razia: I feel that this Workshop is more useful than other personality development  workshop   that I have attended as it explains the values of Islam.  After the Workshop,  I feel I should share my experience with my friends and family members.

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